Too many Christians think that they can paint Jesus as their lovable God substitute and that as a result, God is so into loving humans that he will give and give and give and forgive and forgive and forgive. But this is wrong. God is the capacity for infinite love. That does not mean he awards that love to everyone, or even to say anyone.
There are people I know who think they are just so hot. They have abused the love of God, and those who serve God on God's behalf, and as a result, they have lost their portion of love from God. They need a serious "Dear John" letter from God, letting them know God just is not that into them (you). Consider it done.